| How To Recognize ARIES
They would not remember the simple rules their friends
had though them: such as that red hot poker will burn
you if you hold it to long: and that if you cut your
finger very deeply with a knife, it usually bleeds.
Have you recently met an unusually friendly person
with a forceful manner, a firm handclasp and an instant
smile? Get ready for a dizzy dash around the mulberry
bush. You've probably just been adopted by an Aries.
Especially if you found it a little tough to take the
lead in the conversation.
Is he committed to some idealistic cause and angrily
defending the underdog? That figure Male or Female,
these people will fight what they feel is an injustice
on the spot, and they are not bashful about voicing
their opinions. The ram will take back to a traffic
cop or armed gangster with equal vigor, if either one
happens to annoy him. He may regret it later, but caution
won't concern him in the heat of the moment. Mars people
come straight to the point, with no shilly- shallying.
Aries is the first sign of the zodiac. It represents
birth as pisces represents death and not consciousness
of the soul. The ram is conscious only of himself. He's
the infant of the zodiac- The newborn baby- completely
absorbed with his own toes and fingers. His needs come
first. An infant dose not care whether or not his parents
or the neighbors are sleeping. When he is hungry or
wet he yowls in discomfort. He wants his bottle and
he wants his diaper changed now and don't be poky about
it. When the aries has idea or something he wants to
off his mind he will call you at four in the morning
without a qualm. Why shouldn't you be awake to listen
to him? He's awake, that's all that count. He wants
something he gets it. Like the infant Aries is concerned
with the world only as it relates to himself. But who
could call the small baby truly selfish? He's perfectly
willing to lavish his smiles and favors on those who
satisfy his demands. It's hard to resist a baby because
he so totally unaware that he's causing anyone the slightest
inconvenience. So it is with the ram. His innocence
hangs over him and mellows his aggressiveness like the
innocence of the newborn softens his egocentricity.
This disarming naivete is also why aries people are
so fearless. The baby fears nothing and no one until
he gets burned. Even then he trustingly try again when
he's forgotten the hurt. There's not a trace of cunning
wile in the ram and he will remain this way throughout
his lifetime. Forever believing with all his heart,
always falling down and getting up again to try once
more. Any doubts he collects along the way are immediately
displaced by the next person who's kind to him just
as the baby forgets the pain of the safety pin that
accidentally stuck in his leg the next time someone
sprinkles the powder.
The ram can make believe from here to tomorrow and
spin fabulous dreams but he can't lie worth a tinker.
What you see before you is what he is. There's nothing
hidden or complicated about him. He's just as vulnerable
as the baby, and just as helpless. When stronger, more
mature people force him or take things away from him,
he reacts in the only manner he knows-yelling and causing
so much disturbance, that people give in just to get
peace. He doesn't need delicate strategy. Lung power
and self-absorbed determination suffice beautifully
to allow him to get his way. Perhaps helpless is not
the right word. Vulnerable, yes- but helpless, no
It's a cinch to recognize the physical appearance of
the ram. Aries people have decided features, usually
sharp, seldom soft or blurred. The well-marked brows
often join with the narrow bridge of the nose in forming
the sign of the ram, perhaps as a warning to anyone
with the silly idea of tying to stop or conquer him
that those symbolic horns mean business. You may notice
a mole or a scar on the head or face, a reddish cast
to the hair in the sunlight, and more color than average
in the complexion. You may also sense invisible sparks
shooting out in all directions. The movements will usually
be quick and capable, with a mental process to match.
Both the male and female rams normally have broad shoulders,
and they may walk with the body slightly bent forward,
leading with the head, so to speak, and almost always
in a great hurry. ( often, they're in a hurry to get
to a brick building to knock down, though their horns
may get bent in the butting) There's little that's graceful
about the ram, unless it's his smooth way of handling
a crisis (which never, fails to surprise people who
underestimate him.) The bone structure is fine and strong,
and few Aries people slump. Their posture reflects their
supreme ego and self-confidence. If you see an Aries
with dropping shoulders, he's probably a sheep type,
who was badly hurt in the ego when he was young. It
may take him some time to recover, if the wounds went
deep, but he'll straighten up someday. You can count
on it. Nothing keeps these people down forever, failure
least of all.
The Mars-ruled person will look you straight in the
eye, with unabashed honesty and rather touching faith.
You're his friend, aren't you? You like him, don't you?
No/ Then the tears will start, but inside. He'll never
show it on the surface, if he can help it. If you see
him openly weeping, you can be certain that he's been
cut to the very soul in some way. Arises would rather
be caught dead than be caught weak- and some of them
literally risk the former to avoid the latter.
The ram will seldom glance nervously around the room.
When he does, he's no longer interested in talking with
you. Something else has caught his attention, and for
the moment, you are forgotten. So is what you're saying.
Don't be offended. Remember the baby and his toes and
fingers.
He will undoubtedly be at the head of his chosen career
or involved in a profession on his own. If he's not,
then you can easily recognize him by the discontent
he clearly shows at being forced to submit to others.
You can look for a liberal attitude, lavish generosity
with both time and material things, and a marked desire
to lead all the marches with loud cymbals. But don't
look for subtlety, tact or humility. The average Arien
was behind the barn door on patience, too. In a coffee
shop, he'll quickly criticize the waitress and the sandwich,
if the first is fresh and the second is stale. But he'll
probably leave an un Necessarily big tip when the service
is good.
Aries is very direct, to put it mildly. Deceptiveness
and deviousness are entirely foreign to the Mars nature.
Frankness and refreshing honestly are Arien trademarks,
yet rams don't make the best credit risks. Some of them
lack stability and evidence a child-like lack of responsibility.
Even those who have matured can forget debts in the
excitement of the ever-present new challenge of the
moment, which will always consume their entire attention.
They'll eventually pay their bills cheerfully and willingly,
but you may be out of breath when you catch up with
them.
Although Aries is the firebrand, who forges his way
through life with daring, intiative and enterprise,
there's a strange quirk to his bravery. He'll face the
abominable snowman or the Frankenstein monster without
the slightest trace of fear, yet he can't stand physical
pain.He's never a moral coward, but he can be a huge
sissy about anything that hurts. The dentist is not
one of his favorite people.
Every Arien, at some time in his life,will indulge
in rash behavior that brings an injury to the head or
face. Cuts and burns are also likely, and severe or
evenmigraine headaches, which could stem from kidney
infections. The ram would be wise to steel himself and
see that dentist regularly, guard his eyesight, watch
his diet, treat head colds seriously, and stay away
from alcohol ( not only bad for the kidneys, but quite
combustiable when combined with the Mars temper) Skin
rashes, painful knee caps and stomach disorders also
plague those born in late March or April. The ram's
constitution is strong and tough , if he doesn't abuse
it, which he usually does, by ignoring it. When you
see him confined to bed with little to say, you know
he's really sick. Even so, it may require handcuffs
to keep him down. He can survive fevers high enough
to kill the average person, and many of them are brought
on by his headstrong Mars tendency to carry through
under adverse circumstances, at the wrong times with
the wrong people. The angry impatience and frustration
this always triggers is the real cause of his health
problems. His reaction to delay makes him ill, and the
conscious cultivation of patience and cautions delibration
would keep the doctor away. Not that he'll take such
advice. He keeps the doctor away for years at a time
anyhow, until he either drops in exhaustion or reaches
an age when he gets more sensible. There's not much
danger of an Aries becoming addicted to drugs. Normally,
the ram won't even take a sleeping pill. He'd much rather
stay wide awake. (He's afraid he might miss something)
Because of his forceful optimistic, Aries (along with
the other fire signs, Leo and Sagittarius) seldom falls
victim to the chronic, lingering dieases-which astrology
has always taught and medical science now realizes are
triggered or intensified by melancholy and pessimism.
The fire signs are more susceptible to raging fevers,
fulminating infections, strokes, high blood pressure
and violently acute illness. Say what you will about
this impulsiveness, the ram is seldom guilty of gloom
. The seeds of depression, even if planted, will die
Aries holds, that no one else can do anything as efficiently
as he can may run away with him and lead to a thousand
disasters. He'll carry through his schemes with dash
and confidence, seldom realizing that he's overreaching
himself and headed for ulcers or a nervous breakdown.
No one ever accuses him of laziness.
Because of their guileless nature, subtle tricks of
strategy are impossible for these people. One Aries
I know well, with his fiery, contagious enthusiasm,
got a financial angel to back one of his original ideas.
Just as the deal was about to be closed, and this ram
was about to realize his fondest dreams, the angel logically
suggested that a well-known expert oversee the operation.
The Aries was positive that no one could run it as well
as himself, and he was fearful of getting involved with
someone from whom he might have to take orders, so he
responded quickly, with the usual Aries humility. He
waved his cigar in the air in a superior gesture , and
asked bluntly, 'How do you want your no, fast or slow?'
The financial angel just as quickly withdrew his backing,
and the poor Aries promoter soon developed a severe
case of business leprosy. For many frustrating months,
those who had formerly been behind him one hundred percent
were mysteriously out to lunch or in Europe every time
he called.
A little tactful diplomacy could have kept his dream
from exploding,but it takes the average ram many years
to reach the diplomacy of an Arien like Dean Rusk. People
who have arrived at the top through hard and patient
work justifiably resent an aggressive Aries, who thinks
he knows far more with far less experience. He learns
modesty and humility only after many dismal failures.
But once he's learned , he can make a project pay off
like a gusher, adding stacks of creative ideas, and
intuitively making the right moves. He reaches leadership
only by first respecting those above him in credit and
stature, yet success, when it comes, is normally gigantic
and impressive. Strangely, most Aries people often create
wealth for others rather than and seldom own their own
home.It doesn't seem to break the Mars spirit that cash
doesn't always oling to him, perhaps because what he
seeks is not necessarily in the bank.
Though Aries pushed ahead with confidence, caring little
for the feelings of others, and his attitude, especially
in youth, id 'me first' he can be the warmest and most
generous of all the sun signs. He's not cruel. He just
honestly belives that he can do anything better than
anyone else, and he's psychologically unable to stand
by while others fumble and flop. Give him a choice of
money or glory, and he'll take glory any time. He's
as fond of a dollar as the next person, but he's just
a few shades fonder of praise and fame. The ram has
a way of making instant decisions without the authority
of his superiors. His speech can be satirical and cutting
in invective. Arien anger flashes forth with the speed
of sound, but it's usually gone before the victim knows
what it's all about, and the happy, child-like
Smile quickly returns. One can't help being reminded
of a certain impulsive ram, Nikita krushchev, who once
banged his shoe in a fit of childish temper, on a table
at the United Nations, in full view of a television
audience, and the devil-take the hindermost. He was
being ignored,and what Arien cares about tact when he's
being he missed enjoying the magic wonder of Disneyland.
Mars people are often accused of having a terrible
temper. They have. But they also have a complete inability
to remain angry, and once over with, the grievance is
generally buried and forgotten. He's hurt and surprised
that you still remember the rash things he said but
didn't mean. Given the chance, Aries will apologize
to his worst enemy, regardless of any dire threats he
made in the throes of emotion. He seeks acceptance,
even while he heedlessly and deliberately courts rejection.
Aries people seldom become angry with individuals. You
may get the shower of sparks. But the fire is actually
directed toward an idea or a situation he finds intolerable.
The ram is capable of trying to tell a small white
lie, if it will put him foremost or save one of his
cherished ideals, but most of the time, he has little
use for lies, which is fortunate, because he gets caught
every time. Blunt candor is quicker and since the main
interest is in getting to the point in a hurry, he prefers
to tell the truth. He has no time at all for gossip.
That involves discussing others, and Aries is far too
interested in himself to waste any excess energy speculating
on the inner secrets, behaviour or motives of anyone
else. Besides, people are normally either black or white
to him. He doesn't bother with the gray tones. Don't
mistake this for prejudice, however. If he has heavy
planetary afflictions of his natal chart, the Aries
impulsive disregard for the facts may come forth in
the form of cruelty or prejudice; but this is extremely
rare. The typical ram will dine with beggars and kings
with equal ease and genuine affection. Any reputation
he gets for prejudice comes from his friends and his
enemies and he'll expect you to line them up the same
way, if you're close to him.
Despite his shocking forwardness, the ram can also
be the epitome of social grace. He can converse for
hours in an exciting, interesting manner on subject
he knows absolutely nothing about. There's lot of surface
polish to cover that aggressive Mars drive. Patience
with detail isn't his strong point. He'd rather leave
the minor, petty statistics to someone else. That's
sensible enough. Someone else would handle them far
more efficiently. Time spent pinning down the facts
is resented, because the ram cares nothing for yesterday's
lessons, and tomorrow is too far away to worry about.
Today is his natural residence. This hour and this minute.
He's totally consumed in the action of the present.
A relist, yet a decided idealist, Aries often defles
emotional description. No one can show such sentimentality,
wistful innocence and belief in miracles. Mars people
are literally incapable of accepting defeat. They won't
recognize it even when it stares them in the face, They're
incurable optimistic about the end result of anything
from love to a baseball game. Being very clever in fighters,
the rams battle best with their heads, meaning their
minds. They enjoy opposition because of the challenge
it presents.
And they'll go out of their way to meet an obstacle
and conquer it long before it comes to them and often
when it might have been headed in the opposite direction.
They don't wait around for success to drop in their
laps, either . They'll chase it at a furious pace, which
is why you'll find very few Ariens on welfare lists
.
Just thinking about the energy of the ram wears out
most people. But Ariens are also capable of being calm,
wise and serious when they choose. Unfortunately, they
usually don't choose until youth has passed and maturity
has mellowed their rash idealism and sense of driving
haste. They can arouse popular sympathy easily, yet
they don't necessarily make good politicians. Thomas
Jefferson and Eugene Mccarthy are rare exceptions to
the rule. Of all the Ariens who have tossed their hats
in the ring, most have had comparatively brief or troubled
careers. We haven't had an Aries president in the United
states since John Tyler in 1840. The field of politics
is difficult for the average ram. For one thing, he's
not the very best economist in the world. For another,
he's impulsive in his speech and he hates to hedge,
both deadly traits for a politician. Most politicians
wait to see what people need, never mind what they want,
and he'll see that they get it, sooner than might be
politically expedient, still, he's so idealistic that
once the Arien has come before the public he fires their
imagination and makes them believe in themselves again.
The freshness of Mars candor can blow through the smoke
of political back rooms like a breeze.
But most Aries people are usually happier in business
or the creative arts, where they're so desperately needed.
Others may excel in planning strategy. Calmer heads
and more practical minds may be better at efficient
organization. But without the direct action, energy
and originality of the rams, the most desirable projects
would fall to the ground or make little headway.
You may find an occasional Arien who is shy, but you'll
never find one who's uncertain where he stands. It's
difficult to express your own individuality around these
people. Aries is far happier when he's talking about
himself and his plans than about anybody or anything
else ( with the exception of the loved one, when he's
caught in the clutches of a romance) . once you get
his interest- and lots of luck-he'll be an attentive
listener, especially if your ideas are exciting and
progressive. He'll promote you to the skies, and offer
you his time, money, sympathy and loyalty. When you're
in the hospital, he may forget to send a card, but he
may choose the hospital for you, drive you there himself
and refer you to his own doctor (who will be superior
to Pasteur and both of the Mayo brothers, of course
) Once involved in helping you through a rough time,
Aries will walk the extra mile without hesitation. But
show your gratitude, please. He'll be deeply hurt, if
not downright angry, when you don't appreciate his strenuous
actions, which went far beyond what you needed or wanted.
He enjoys doing favors; the larger the charitable gesture
the better but the ram wants his credit when it's coming
to him. If thanks are withheld, however, it probably
won't keep him from helping again. His amazing faith
in himself is matched only by his native trust in others,
which is why he's almost constantly disillusioned, and
complaining that someone has let him down. Of course,
he won't stay down long. He'll pick himself up, dust
himself off, and soon be ready, willing and able to
blast away again, after a typical binge of violent but
brief depression.
The ram gives such an impression of sincerity that
it's startling to face his sheer audacity when he claims
for a fact something he knows- or should know- to be
untrue. Accuse him of dishonesty, and he'll look at
you in amazement, with candid eyes open wide in utter
horror that you could doubt him. He can wear blinders
and ear plugs to shut out anything he doesn't want to
believe. Even when his position is completely untenable,
he'll bravely stick to his guns and work for the lost
cause with earnest conviction. Still, he can change
his mind about an opinion you thought he was born with
in a moment of fast decision, and when he does, it's
impossible for him to regain his former point of view,
let alone remember it. His urge to toss the past in
the trash can and go forward at full speed (one of the
chief reasons he adapts to new locations and people
so painlessly) makes him think those who try to reason
with him are interfering with his progress. Then he's
liable to throw what little tact he has to the four
winds. The ultra conservative, who weighs every word
and decision, is maddening to the Mars souls, who can
communicate their annoyance and frustration with clear
and abundant meaning. So it's easy to see why they sometimes
make such bitter enemies of older, wiser heads.
Aries has an innocent wistful facet to his nature,
and a kind of eternal, joyous, native faith, blended
with the blind zeal of the born crusader. Like the diamond,
his Mars horns are hard, and tough to crack.
He sees bright red frequently, but when the sparks
have disappeared, he becomes as cheerful and openly
friendly as the happy Arien daisy. His metal is iron,
and its unbendable strength gives him nine times as
many lives to live as others; nine times as many chances
of winning the battle. The fire that consumes his spirit
can be a flaming torch that lights the way to courage
for anyone who recognizes his great idealism.
He is the pioneer, always leading others onward to
an impossible goal. His beautiful iron faith is pure-unmixed
with the alloys of hypocrisy and greed. He seldom amasses
a fortune, and if he did, he would be too busy to stop
and count it. Help yourself to his money , clothes or
time. He always has some to spare, however pressed or
poor he may be temporarily. The ram knows that bread
cast on the waters not only feeds his ego and returns
again increased, but it makes people happy, one of things
he enjoys most in life.To Aries, miracles are a dime
a dozen. If you run out, he'll make you some more, wrapped
in brave, scarlet dreams.
FAMOUS ARIES PERSONALITIES
Dean Acheson, Bismark, Marlon Brando, Charles Chaplin,
Ilka chase, Julie Christie, Joan Crawford, Bette Davis,
Thomas Dewey, Bernard Gimbel, Harry Houdini, Henry James,
Thomas Jefferson, George Jessel, Nikita Krushchev, Clare
Boothe Luce, Henry Luce, Eugene McCarthy, Andrew Mellon,
J.P. Morgan, Joseph Pulitzer, Simone Signoret, Harold
Stassen, Leopold stokowski, Tennessee Williams. Makarand
Bendre
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